What to Expect During Your First Psychic Medium Reading

If you’re thinking about booking your first psychic medium reading, welcome. It’s not unusual to feel a mix of emotions—excitement, nervousness, maybe even some uncertainty. Reaching out to Spirit is a deeply personal step, and whether you’re seeking comfort, clarity, or connection, this process is truly sacred.

Over the years, I’ve had the honour of guiding hundreds of individuals through their first sessions. One of the most common things I hear is, “I had no idea what to expect.” That’s exactly why I created this post—to help ease your nerves, answer your questions, and set the stage for a beautiful, meaningful experience.

Understanding a Psychic Medium Reading

So, what exactly is a psychic medium reading?

As a psychic, I connect with your energy—your emotions, thoughts, and life path. As a medium, I bridge the gap between you and your loved ones in Spirit. During a session, I receive impressions, symbols, memories, and messages from those on the other side. These are evidential validations that they’re still around you, watching over you, and wanting to support your journey.

Each reading is unique because every soul—on both sides of the veil—is unique. Some connections come through with vibrant personality traits or specific memories, while others may share quieter, more emotional messages. No two readings are ever the same, and that’s what makes them so special.

Preparing for Your First Psychic Medium Reading

There’s no pressure to “do” anything to prepare, but a few simple steps can help you feel grounded and present.

• Set an intention. Quietly hold in your heart what you hope to receive—whether it’s clarity, peace, or connection with a specific loved one.
• Avoid strong expectations. Spirit brings forward what you need most in the moment. Trust in the process.
• Bring a photo or keepsake (optional). While not necessary, personal items can sometimes strengthen your emotional connection and focus.
• Create a quiet, undisturbed space. Especially important for virtual sessions—treat this as sacred time for yourself.

It’s okay to feel nervous. Most people do. But you’re in safe hands—and in even safer spiritual company.

What Happens During the Reading

In your psychic medium reading, I’ll begin by attuning to your energy and inviting your Spirit team—guides, loved ones, or ancestors—to step forward. I’ll share what I receive: this could be physical sensations, mental images, emotions, memories, or specific messages.

Some loved ones come through boldly with names or vivid events, while others communicate more subtly. You might receive:

• Affirmations of ongoing love and support
• Specific memories or validations to confirm who is coming through
• Gentle guidance for your healing or growth

There may be laughter, tears, or quiet stillness. All of it is welcome. My job is never to control the experience but to create a space where Spirit can speak clearly, and where you feel seen, held, and honoured.

After the Reading: Integration & Reflection

A psychic medium reading doesn’t end when the call does. Messages from Spirit often continue to unfold in the hours or days after your session. Here’s what I recommend:

• Journal your thoughts. Write down what stood out, what resonated, and what you’re still sitting with.
• Be gentle with yourself. These sessions can stir emotions or bring deep healing to the surface.
• Stay open. Sometimes validations come later—through dreams, signs, or moments of realization.

Know that just by showing up with an open heart, you’ve taken an important step. Spirit always honors your willingness to connect.

Common Questions About Psychic Medium Readings

Will you tell me something bad?
No. Spirit communication is rooted in love and healing. My readings are not about fear, predictions, or judgment. They are about clarity, comfort, and connection.

What if no one comes through?
That’s extremely rare. In my experience, someone always steps forward. It may not always be the person you expect—but it’s always someone you need.

Do you record the session?
Yes, I offer recordings for online readings whenever possible. Many clients appreciate being able to revisit the messages later.

Final Thoughts

If you’ve been feeling the nudge to book a psychic medium reading, trust that it’s happening for a reason. Spirit often calls us forward before we fully understand why. My role is to walk beside you with respect, care, and integrity—helping you feel connected, supported, and empowered.

Whether you’re seeking closure, clarity, or simply to feel your loved one’s presence again, I’ll be here when you’re ready.

With love,
Courtney
Spiritual Medium & Mentor