If you’ve ever wondered what a spiritual medium actually does or felt curious about what it means to connect with the spirit world, you’re not alone. In fact, many of the clients I meet come to me with heartfelt questions like:
As a spiritual medium, my work isn’t just about delivering messages—it’s about creating meaningful, healing connections between this world and the next. In this post, I want to pull back the curtain on what mediumship really is, how it works, and what you can expect from a session with someone like me.
Let’s demystify the world of spirit—together.
At its core, a spiritual medium is someone who can sense and communicate with the spirit world. This might include loved ones who have passed, spirit guides, or even the energetic imprint of someone who has crossed over.
Unlike a psychic, who tunes into the energy of people, places, and future possibilities, a medium specifically tunes into spiritual energy—the kind that exists beyond the physical body.
When I work with clients, I open myself to receive information from those in spirit, often in the form of images, feelings, words, or even memories that come through with striking clarity. These messages often bring comfort, closure, and sometimes the validation someone didn’t even know they were looking for.
It’s important to understand that these connections are not imagined or random—they are intentional, sacred, and deeply transformative.
Mediumship can also vary in form. Some mediums hear (clairaudience), some see (clairvoyance), others feel (clairsentience), and many experience a combination of these. Personally, I experience spirit in multiple ways, which allows me to bring through messages as clearly and authentically as possible.
This is one of the most common points of confusion, so let’s clarify:
All mediums are psychic, but not all psychics are mediums. Mediumship involves an additional level of connection: reaching through the veil to communicate with spirit intelligence—which can bring through not just insight, but evidence of continued life after death.
For example, in a reading I might describe a father figure with a very specific accent, a shared inside joke, or a favorite song—details that are deeply personal and couldn’t be guessed. These moments are what make evidential mediumship so profound.
The clarity of the message often depends on the spirit’s energy and your openness as a sitter. Some spirits come through strongly and joyfully, while others are more subtle and soft-spoken. Each connection is beautifully unique.
Every medium is different, but if you were to book a session with me, here’s what you could expect:
Before anything begins, I take time to ground myself and set the intention for a clear, compassionate connection. I also make sure you feel comfortable, whether we’re in person or connecting through a virtual session.
Creating a calm environment is essential. It helps both you and spirit relax, and that’s when the best communication can take place.
As an evidential medium, I aim to bring through details that only you would recognize—things like names, memories, personality traits, or specific events. This isn’t about general messages—it’s about real, identifiable evidence of life after death.
When these details come through, they often bring tears, laughter, or even amazement. It’s those moments that remind us we are never truly alone.
Spirit has a beautiful way of bringing through not just information, but deep emotion. It’s not uncommon for clients to feel a sense of peace, joy, or even shared laughter during a session. Sometimes, it’s the first time they’ve felt close to their loved one in years.
Healing doesn’t always come with answers—it often comes with presence. Spirit’s presence.
After spirit communication comes through, I always offer time for questions. Sometimes you’ll have clarity right away, and other times it may unfold over the days and weeks to come. Spirit often plants seeds that bloom later.
I also encourage clients to take a few moments after the session to ground themselves and journal anything that resonated. Mediumship is powerful—and integrating the experience is just as important as receiving it.
You might be wondering—how is any of this possible? Mediumship is a spiritual gift, yes, but it’s also a skill that can be developed over time. It’s based on sensitivity to energy and spirit frequency.
Imagine it like tuning into a radio station: I raise my vibration, spirit lowers theirs, and we meet in the middle on a shared frequency. That’s where the magic happens.
Through training, trust, and spiritual development, mediums learn how to interpret what they receive—because spirit doesn’t always speak in sentences. Sometimes it’s symbols, feelings, or sudden “downloads” of information.
It’s an intuitive language that requires practice, patience, and deep self-trust. Mediums are constantly growing and refining their connection, just like musicians or athletes continue honing their craft.
Many people experience signs from spirit without even realizing it. You don’t have to be a medium to feel close to your loved ones in spirit. Here are a few common signs they might be reaching out:
These are subtle reminders that your loved ones are still with you—just in a different form.
If you’ve experienced any of these, take a moment to acknowledge it. Spirit communication is subtle—but so, so powerful.
Yes—and no.
Everyone has intuition. Everyone has the potential to strengthen their connection with spirit, just like everyone can learn to play the piano. But some people are more naturally sensitive or feel called to develop it further. If you’ve always felt deeply empathic, connected to others, or drawn to the spiritual realm, it might be a sign that mediumship is part of your path.
At Connected Spirit School, I help people explore and develop these gifts in a grounded, ethical, and supportive way. It’s not about “being special”—it’s about being open and respectful to the sacred nature of this work.
And if you’re already receiving signs, trust that spirit is guiding you. The desire to learn is often the first step.
If you’re considering diving deeper into your intuitive development, I encourage you to start with meditation, journaling, and grounding practices. These help strengthen your energetic awareness and prepare you for higher spiritual connection.
Mediumship isn’t just about curiosity. For many, it’s about healing. Clients come to me when they’ve lost a parent, child, or partner and are looking for reassurance that their loved one is okay.
Others seek guidance on their spiritual path, hoping to understand signs they’ve been receiving or to explore their own intuitive gifts.
Here are some of the most common reasons people reach out:
Whatever the reason, I approach every reading with compassion, integrity, and a deep respect for both the client and the spirit world.
Let’s clear up a few misconceptions I hear all the time:
Not exactly. True spiritual mediums communicate with loved ones in spirit—not haunting entities. These are loving, intelligent spirits who want to connect for healing and guidance.
Hollywood has done a number on how people view mediumship. In real life, it’s calm, heart-centered, and often incredibly comforting.
I wish! Mediumship isn’t mind-reading. It’s about translating energy and messages as they’re given, often in pieces. We’re the messenger, not the source.
Energy transcends space and time. Many of my most powerful readings happen online. Whether you’re across town or across the globe, spirit shows up.
Actually, mediumship can be profoundly healing during grief. While I don’t recommend a session immediately after a loss, once the initial wave has passed, a reading can offer incredible peace, reassurance, and connection.
When looking for a spiritual medium, trust your gut. Look for someone with:
Ask yourself how the medium makes you feel—both on their website and in person. Connection matters.
It’s also okay to ask questions beforehand. A reputable medium will be happy to answer them.
Being a spiritual medium is one of the most humbling experiences of my life. Every reading is a reminder that love never dies, that the soul is eternal, and that we’re more supported than we realize.
If you’ve ever wondered if your loved one is still with you—please know they are. You don’t need to wait for a sign or a reading to feel that connection. It’s already there.
But when you do feel ready, a session with a spiritual medium can offer profound validation, healing, and peace.
If you’re feeling called to explore more, consider joining a development circle or taking a beginner class. Spirit is always ready to meet you halfway.
Thank you for being here and exploring this sacred work with me.
With love and light,
Courtney Dawson
Evidential Psychic Medium & Mentor
